"You Must Be Born Again" | John 1:1-15 | Pastor Brian Lee | Sunday Worship (February 8, 2026) Introduction John 3 introduces a Jewish man named Nicodemus. Now, Nicodemus is the kind of person we assume doesn’t need the “born again” message. After all, he’s not a "mess." He’s not “searching.” He’s established—moral, educated, respected, religious. And that’s precisely why John 3 is so unsettling. Jesus says the new birth is not for “those people,” but for everyone, including the most put-together person in the room. 1. YOU must be born again (vv. 1–3) Nicodemus is not needy in the obvious ways. Pharisee: disciplined, morally serious Ruler: influence, stability, reputation Teacher of Israel (v. 10): trained, trusted, “knows his Bible” And he comes at night (v. 2). This is not necessarily a sign of desperation, but more of cautiousness. He approaches Jesus respectfully. “we know you are a teacher come from God” (v. 2). In other words, he’s evaluating Jesus. Nicodemus sees Jesus as a young teacher but not the Messiah. But Jesus doesn’t let him stay in the safe category of “religious conversation.” Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God. (v. 3) This is intensely personal: Nicodemus, with all your morality, learning, status, and religion—you still need a new birth. The new birth is not mainly for the emotionally broken or morally chaotic. Nicodemus disproves every stereotype. The new birth is a universal necessity, especially for the religious person who assumes, “I’m already close.” Some people are far from God by open rebellion. Others are far from God by respectable religion. Both need to be born again. 2. You MUST be born again (vv. 4–8) It's a "must!" Jesus is not giving a suggestion. This is a necessity. Why? Because we are not basically "sick" people who need medical advice to improve our health. We are dead people who need a new life. Nicodemus keeps thinking in categories of self-improvement: “How can a man be born when he is old?” (v. 4). Jesus is saying, you don’t need adjustment. What you need is death and resurrection. That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. (v. 6) Flesh can only produce flesh. The old nature can’t generate the new life. That’s why Jesus says, Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You must be born again.’ (v. 7) And then the wind metaphor. The wind blows where it wishes… so it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit. (v. 8) The Spirit is not something you control, schedule, or manufacture. You can’t “decide yourself into” the kingdom. New birth is God’s work, God’s initiative, God’s power. Ephesians says. And you were dead in the trespasses and sins… (Ephesians 2:1) But God, being rich in mercy… made us alive together with Christ… (Ephesians 2:4–5) So “you must be born again” means salvation is not self-rescue. It’s mercy. It’s grace. It’s divine life given to the dead. The baby doesn’t cause the birth. New birth is received, not achieved. You must receive it! You must be born again! 3. You must be BORN AGAIN (vv. 9–15) Nicodemus begins with the teacher paradigm. “Rabbi… you are a teacher come from God” (v. 2) He wants Jesus’ insight, Jesus’ ethics, Jesus’ instruction. And Jesus essentially says, Nicodemus, you don’t primarily need a teacher. You need a Savior. You don’t need information; you need transformation. Jesus says, No one has ascended into heaven except he who descended from heaven, the Son of Man. (v. 13) You can’t climb up to God by religion. God must come down. Then Jesus gives the decisive image, As Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, that whoever believes in him may have eternal life. (vv. 14–15) Born again is not a vague spiritual experience. It is tied to a specific act of God in history. Jesus was lifted up at the cross. The serpent story (Numbers 21) was not “try harder.” It was that you were dead, and God has provided a remedy. Look away and live. So what is the mark of the new birth? Not merely admiration for Jesus’ teaching, but faith in Jesus’ saving work. Not “I like Jesus,” but “I need Jesus.” Not “teach me,” but “save me.” Shift from teacher mindset (self-effort, moral confidence) to Savior mindset (grace, dependence, faith). Conclusion John 3 is a mercy and grace because it refuses to let us settle for respectable religion. You must be born again: even the established, moral, religious person. You must be born again: because dead people can’t raise themselves. You must be born again: because Jesus is not only a teacher to follow but a Savior to trust—lifted up for sinners. So don’t climb. Don’t negotiate. Don’t merely admire. Look to the lifted-up Son, and live! For more sermons, visit https://www.riversidepeople.org/sermons

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